Happy Father’s Day!
Sunday, June 20th, 2010Today is Father’s Day in America, Canada and UK, but for NZ and Australia, it is in September. I saw an idea on the Better Homes and Garden website for a personalised apron for Matt so unknown to him, we ordered a white apron from ebay.
We got some felt and the boys started designing their own pictures on a piece of paper, pining the paper to the felt and cutting them out. They did not get pricked by a pin even once! Good job, boys!
Since I had packed up all the craft glue, I used a hot glue gun, which was a mistake because it did not adhere well to fabric. I had to sew them all on and the hot glue had hardened, making it difficult for the needle to pass through. Sewing it when Matt was around was a challenge, I had to sew in the toilet several times and maybe he was wondering why I was there so long!
This morning, he is not awake yet and we are preparing him a breakfast in bed. Making him this dish.
Matt, you are a wonderful father to our boys, I love how you spend so much time with them, how you are always looking at parenting courses or books or ways to improve yourself with them. You are a selfless Dad, you put yourself before the boys - your “Me Time” is basically always spent with the boys and I, sometimes doing things that I don’t really like doing, like physical activities - swimming, basketball, etc. You encourage them to go farther than I could ever do so because I am always so terrified of them hurting themselves by falling. They gain so much confidence with you and their eyes are always happy and dancing when they play with you.
I would also like to remember my own father who lives in Malaysia. My Dad is the cornerstone of our family, he is so wise and taught us many values from young. The one that stands out the most is, family comes first, no matter what. I have always valued his advice and when we had to leave for the USA, we turned to him for direction. He has the most practical of minds and I think it comes with experience from being a General Manager of a tyre company for so many years. He has always provided for us all as a family. My fondest memories of my Dad is when we, as young children, would travel in the car to Malacca to see my cousins. He would take us to the Klebang Besar Beach, sometimes every weekend and in those days, without highways, it was a 60 mile drive there.
The boys have really benefitted from staying so close to them while we lived in Singapore, they got to develop a strong bond with him and my mother. Skype really helps to bridge the distance between us now and I am blessed that the boys can continue their bond with them.
I want to start some of the traditions for the boys, just like my father started for us. Weekend getaways that the boys can enjoy, but building lifelong memories and relationships with each other.
Happy Father’s Day!

























